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Communication in Relationships

Seventh Edition


January 2027 | SAGE Publications, Inc
Taking a relational approach to the study of interpersonal communication, this best-selling text helps students better understand their relationships with romantic partners, friends, and family members. Updated with the most current research findings and advances in theory, Close Encounters, Seventh Edition offers insightful examples and case studies to show how state-of-the-art research and theory can be applied to specific issues within relationships. While maintaining the spotlight on communication, authors Laura Guerrero, Peter Andersen, and Walid Afifi also emphasize the interdisciplinary nature of the study of personal relationships by including research from such disciplines as social psychology and family studies. The text covers issues relevant to developing, maintaining, repairing, and ending relationships. Both the “bright” and “dark” sides of interpersonal communication within relationships are explored, offering a comprehensive overview of the varied dynamics of close relationships. The Seventh Edition features new research on technology-mediated communication in areas such as online dating, sexting, and cancel culture. 

 
Preface
 
Acknowledgments
 
About the Authors
 
Chapter 1: Conceptualizing Relational Communication: Definitions and Principles
The Field of Personal Relationships: A Brief History

 
Relationships

 
Principles of Interpersonal Communication

 
Principles of Relational Communication

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 2: Communicating Identity: The Social Self
Aspects of Identity

 
Social Media and Identity

 
Concepts Related to Identity

 
Communicating Identity to Others

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 3: Drawing People Together: Forces of Interpersonal Attraction
Attraction

 
A Framework for Understanding Attraction

 
Personal Qualities

 
Other People’s Qualities

 
Qualities of the Pair

 
Qualities of the Physical or Social Environment

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 4: Making Sense of Our World: Managing Uncertainty and Expectancy Violations
What Is Uncertainty?

 
Uncertainty Reduction Theory

 
Secret Tests

 
Predicted Outcome Value Theory

 
The Theory of Motivated Information Management

 
Relational Turbulence Theory

 
Expectancy Violations

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 5: Developing Relationships: Stages and Turning Points
How People Meet

 
Communication Skills

 
Self-Disclosure and Social Penetration Theory

 
Relationship Stages

 
Turning Points and Transitions

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 6: Communicating Closeness: Affection, Immediacy, and Social Support
Closeness in Relationships

 
Affectionate Communication

 
Immediacy Behavior

 
Cognitive Valence Theory

 
Supportive Communication

 
Sex Differences in the Experience and Expression of Closeness

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 7: Too Close for Comfort: Avoidance and Privacy
Risks Associated with Self-Disclosure

 
Topic Avoidance and Secret Keeping

 
Privacy

 
Obsessive Relational Intrusion

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 8: Making a Love Connection: Styles of Love and Attachment
What Is Love?

 
Love Styles

 
Attachment Theory

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 9: Communicating Sexually: The Closest Physical Encounter
Sexual Attitudes

 
Casual Sex

 
Sex in Romantic Relationships

 
Communication About Sex and Before, During, and After Sex

 
Safe Sex

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 10: Staying Close: Maintaining Relationships
Defining Relational Maintenance

 
Behaviors Used to Maintain Relationships

 
Maintenance Behavior in Romantic Relationships

 
Maintenance Behavior in Friendships

 
Equity Theory

 
Relational Dialectics

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 11: Coping With Conflict: When Relational Partners Disagree
Conflict in Relationships

 
Conflict Styles

 
Patterns of Conflict Interaction

 
Attributions During Conflict

 
Communication Skill Deficits

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 12: Influencing Each Other: Dominance and Power Plays in Relationships
Defining Power and Related Terms

 
Power Principles

 
Interpersonal Influence Goals

 
Communicating Power and Influence

 
Traditional Versus Egalitarian Marriages

 
Culture, Equality, and Power

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 13: Hurting the Ones We Love: Relational Transgressions and Intimate Partner Violence
Hurt Feelings in Relationships

 
Deception

 
Infidelity

 
Jealousy

 
Unrequited Love

 
Intimate Partner Violence

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 14: Healing the Hurt: Relationship Repair and Reconciliation
The Investment Model of Relationship-Maintaining Behavior

 
The Model of Accommodation

 
Remedial Strategies

 
Forgiveness

 
Relational Reconciliation

 
On-Again Off-Again Relationships

 
Relational Redefinition

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Chapter 15: Ending Relationships and Moving On: Relationship Disengagement
Why Relationships End

 
How Relationships End

 
Breakup Strategies

 
The Bad and the Good of Relationship Endings

 
Summary and Application

 
Key Terms

 
Glossary

 
Discussion Questions

 
 
Glossary
 
References
Key features
NEW TO THIS EDITION:
  • New and updated research and content reflect current research and trends in relationships, including technology-mediated communication in areas such as online dating, sexting, and cancel culture.
  • Reconceptualized stages of relationship development to better reflect current research about how relationships unfold today.
  • Generation Alpha has been added to the identity chapter.
  • Expanded section on intimate partner violence

KEY FEATURES:

  • Current, interdisciplinary research reflects the interdisciplinary nature of the study of personal relationships and draws from across the social science disciplines while maintaining a focus on communication. 
  • High-interest and intriguing topics, such as long-distance relationships, cross-sex friendships, friends with benefits, flirting, sexual interaction, cohabitation, breakups, and the “dark side” of relational communication are explored in depth.
  • Put Yourself to the Test features exercises to assess various aspects of students’ own relationships and communication styles.
  • Highlights boxes summarize main ideas in the text and expand upon key issues in relationship research. 
  • Tech Talk boxes take an in-depth look at specific research issues related to technology and social media in relationships such as cell phones, social networking sites, and online dating sites.
  • Infographics boxes present information visually in graphs so students can see trends, sex differences, or rankings of categories in a memorable way.
  • Discussion Board Questions found at the end of each chapter facilitate online or classroom discussions.